{"id":676,"date":"2011-10-17T06:56:01","date_gmt":"2011-10-17T06:56:01","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/imamkoy.com\/?page_id=676"},"modified":"2026-02-17T22:08:45","modified_gmt":"2026-02-17T21:08:45","slug":"dugunlernisan-orf-ve-adetlerimiz","status":"publish","type":"page","link":"http:\/\/imamkoy.com\/index.php\/dugunlernisan-orf-ve-adetlerimiz\/","title":{"rendered":"Ayd\u0131n Y\u00f6resi Eski K\u0131z \u0130steme, Mendil Alma, Ni\u015fan, K\u0131nal\u0131k, D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn, Gelin Hamam\u0131, K\u0131z Ard\u0131 , Gelin Alma, Gelin Gezmesi Gibi \u00d6rf ve Adetlerimiz Hz: Nermin Karabulut"},"content":{"rendered":"\n

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\u0130mamk\u00f6y Gelin Alma (gelin Deve \u00dczerinde)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

1940-70 y\u0131llar\u0131 aras\u0131nda evlilikler<\/strong> genelde g\u00f6r\u00fcc\u00fc usul\u00fc ile olurmu\u015f, O\u011flan \u00f6nce vatan\u0131 hizmetini tamamlay\u0131p o esnada evi de yapt\u0131r\u0131larak evlilik i\u00e7in art\u0131k haz\u0131rd\u0131r. K\u0131z evi de k\u0131z ilk okulda iken anne yava\u015f yava\u015f karyola tak\u0131m\u0131, ara oyalar\u0131, kanavi\u00e7e yast\u0131klar, gibi \u00e7eyizliklerini haz\u0131rlar \u00e7eyiz sand\u0131\u011f\u0131na koyar. ilk okuldan \u00e7\u0131k\u0131nca biraz beyaz e\u015fyalar\u0131 al\u0131n\u0131r, g\u0131g\u0131r s\u00fcp\u00fcrge, merdaneli \u00e7ama\u015f\u0131r makinas\u0131, hal\u0131, buzdolab\u0131, daha eskiden tel dolapm\u0131\u015f gibi \u00e7eyizler haz\u0131rlan\u0131r.\u00a0 16-17 ya\u015f\u0131na ula\u015f\u0131nca art\u0131k gelinlik k\u0131zd\u0131r. O\u011flan evi i\u00e7in\u00a0 k\u0131z aramalar ba\u015flan\u0131r. Bu \u015fu \u015fekilde olurmu\u015f,\u00a0 bazen o\u011flan\u0131n k\u0131z\u0131 bir yerde g\u00f6rmesi be\u011fenmesi, o\u011fluna k\u0131z arayan o\u011flan anas\u0131n\u0131n gitti\u011fi d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerde k\u0131z\u0131 g\u00f6rmesi\u00a0 veya bir yerde tesad\u00fcfen g\u00f6rmesi, e\u015f dostun gen\u00e7leri birbirine uygun g\u00f6rmesi ile tavsiye \u00fczerine o\u011flan anas\u0131 da k\u0131z\u0131\u00a0 be\u011fenip o\u011fluna m\u00fcnasip g\u00f6r\u00fcrse,\u00a0 hay\u0131rl\u0131 i\u015fe girilirmi\u015f, \u00f6nce k\u0131z evinin a\u011f\u0131z\u0131n\u0131 yoklamak i\u00e7in \u00f6nc\u00fc\u00a0 (\u00f6n ayak olan) ki\u015filer taraf\u0131ndan\u00a0 ufak bir \u00e7\u0131tlatma g\u00f6nderilir. K\u0131z\u0131n\u0131z\u0131 bizim o\u011flan be\u011fenmi\u015f veya sizin k\u0131z\u0131 filanca o\u011flana uygun g\u00f6rd\u00fck diye d\u00fcn\u00fcrc\u00fcler gider. K\u0131z evi de uygun (mehel) g\u00f6r\u00fcrse buyursunlar gelsinler denir.\u00a0 K\u0131z\u0131n ailesi\u00a0 b\u00fcy\u00fcklere dan\u0131\u015f\u0131rlar, ara\u015ft\u0131r kimlerden hangi s\u00fclaleden sab\u0131kalar\u0131 var m\u0131? o\u011flan ne i\u015fle\u00a0 yapar. Evi var m\u0131? sorarlar uygun g\u00f6r\u00fcrlerse gelsinler bir bakal\u0131m denirmi\u015f,\u00a0 \u00a0o\u011flan evinin aile b\u00fcy\u00fckleri toplan\u0131r. Per\u015fembe ak\u015fam\u0131\u00a0 k\u0131z istemeye gidilir,\u00a0 damat k\u0131z istemeye gitmez,\u00a0 ”Allah’\u0131n emri peygamberin kavliyle”\u00a0 isteme yap\u0131l\u0131r.\u00a0 Uygun g\u00f6r\u00fcrlerse\u00a0 k\u0131z verilir. <\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u00f6z Kesme Mendil Alma: <\/span>O\u011flan evi eskiden i\u015fin maddi olarak b\u00fcy\u00fck k\u0131sm\u0131n\u0131 y\u00fcklenirmi\u015f, alt\u0131n (be\u015fibiryerde, sar\u0131 lira, bilezik, tura alt\u0131n\u0131 falan) birde baklava 250-300 kilogram istenirmi\u015f, k\u0131z evi bunu da\u011f\u0131t\u0131r kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131nda okuntu (avet) gelirmi\u015f,<\/strong> d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc ve ni\u015fan\u0131n ne zaman yap\u0131laca\u011f\u0131 konu\u015fulur mendil verilir. S\u00f6z kesme, s\u00f6z\u00a0 mendili alma sevin\u00e7li bir olay oldu\u011fu i\u00e7in, e\u011fer k\u0131z k\u00f6y d\u0131\u015f\u0131na verildiyse, o\u011flan taraf\u0131 arabalar\u0131n\u0131n kornalar\u0131na \u00e7ok\u00e7a art arda \u00e7alarak giderler.\u00a0 Herkes taraf\u0131ndan bu s\u00f6z olay\u0131 bilinir. S\u00f6z ni\u015fan\u0131n masraflar\u0131n\u0131n g\u00f6r\u00fclece\u011fi g\u00fcn iki aile de toplan\u0131rd\u0131. O g\u00fcn; k\u0131z, o\u011flan, anne ve babalar, iki gencin abla ve a\u011fabeyleri, yenge ve eni\u015fteleri hep beraber ni\u015fan al\u0131\u015f veri\u015fine \u00e7\u0131k\u0131l\u0131r. \u00d6nce ni\u015fan y\u00fcz\u00fckleri be\u011fenilir ve al\u0131n\u0131rd\u0131. K\u0131za ve o\u011flana birer tak\u0131m elbise, i\u00e7 \u00e7ama\u015f\u0131r\u0131, terlik, mendil, \u00e7orap, ayakkab\u0131 vs. giyim e\u015fyalar\u0131 al\u0131n\u0131rd\u0131. K\u0131z evinin ald\u0131\u011f\u0131 e\u015fyalar\u0131 o\u011flan evi, o\u011flan evinin ald\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 da k\u0131z evi g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcrd\u00fc.<\/strong><\/p>\n

S\u00f6zde k\u0131z\u0131n abisi veya babas\u0131 i\u00e7in k\u00f6r\u00fckl\u00fc \u00e7izme istenirmi\u015f, olan evi de jest olarak al\u0131rm\u0131\u015f, k\u0131z\u0131 verdik k\u00f6r\u00fckl\u00fc \u00e7izmeyi giydik (Efe \u00e7izmesi)<\/strong><\/p>\n

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M\u00fcsait bir g\u00fcnde (pazar veya per\u015fembe) aile aras\u0131nda genelde ak\u015fam olur s\u00f6z y\u00fcz\u00fckleri tak\u0131l\u0131r. Bu y\u00fcz\u00fck, k\u00fcpe olur. Bunu halk aras\u0131nda filancan\u0131n ( Ay\u015fenin, Fatman\u0131n, Hasan\u0131n, Alinin) s\u00f6z y\u00fcz\u00fckleri tak\u0131lm\u0131\u015f denir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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Cerez Sinileri (Ni\u015fan Kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131)<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

\u00a0<\/strong>B\u00fcy\u00fck Ni\u015fan ve Ni\u015fan Sinileri<\/span><\/strong>\u00a0S\u00f6z ni\u015fan\u0131ndan birka\u00e7 ay veya 1\u00a0 y\u0131l sonra \u00e7alg\u0131l\u0131 b\u00fcy\u00fck ni\u015fan yap\u0131lmak \u00fczere haz\u0131rl\u0131klar ba\u015flan\u0131r. O\u011flan evi k\u0131za takaca\u011f\u0131 alt\u0131n, bilezik di\u011fer s\u00fcs e\u015fyalar\u0131n\u0131 almak i\u00e7in tekrar ni\u015fan al\u0131\u015f veri\u015fine \u00e7\u0131k\u0131l\u0131r. K\u0131za ni\u015fan t\u00f6reninde giymek i\u00e7in tuvalet veya abiye elbise, erke\u011fe de tak\u0131m elbise al\u0131n\u0131r. Yaz mevsimi ise g\u00f6mlek kravat ile ge\u00e7i\u015ftirilir. B\u00fcy\u00fck ni\u015fan pazar g\u00fcn\u00fc yap\u0131l\u0131r. Okul bah\u00e7esinde, evin avlusu, soka\u011f\u0131 geni\u015f olanlar <\/b>\u00a0da sokakta\u00a0<\/b> yaparlar. Bayan \u00e7alg\u0131c\u0131lar gelir. Ailenin b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinden veya e\u011fitimli a\u011f\u0131z\u0131 iyi laf birisi ni\u015fan y\u00fcz\u00fcklerini takar. Tak\u0131 t\u00f6reni ba\u015flar o\u011flan evi gelin\u00a0 k\u0131za bilezikleri, alt\u0131n\u0131 k\u00fcpeyi herkes \u00f6n\u00fcnde takar. Damatta da y\u00fcz\u00fck, kol saati, o zamanlar alt\u0131n k\u00fcnye tak\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131. E\u015f dost para takarlar ni\u015fan ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f olur. paralarla tak\u0131larla gelin damat harman dal\u0131 oynat\u0131l\u0131r. Sonra erkekler da\u011f\u0131l\u0131r damat ve aileden birka\u00e7 erkek ni\u015fan alan\u0131nda kal\u0131r. Bayanlar tek olarak \u00e7alg\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcnde oynarlar. B\u00f6ylelikle ni\u015fan merasimi tamamlan\u0131r. Kom\u015fular o\u011flan evi veya k\u0131z evine sonra ni\u015fan m\u00fcbare\u011fine\u00a0 gelinir. \"\"<\/a><\/b><\/p>\n

S\u00f6zde istenmi\u015f olan baklava akrabalara kom\u015fulara birer k\u011f olarak da\u011f\u0131t\u0131l\u0131r. Ev i\u00e7ine konulan t\u00fclbent, g\u00f6mlek, gibi e\u015fyalar da sahiplerine verilir. Bir ka\u00e7 g\u00fcn k\u0131z evine veya o\u011flan evine tan\u0131d\u0131klar taraf\u0131ndan ni\u015fan m\u00fcbare\u011fine gidilir.\u00a0 Sonra k\u0131z evi o\u011flan evine ni\u015fan kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 olarak sini eder siniler pilav ve \u00fcstleri b\u00fct\u00fcn tavuk konulur. Birka\u00e7 sini olur,\u00a0 baklava tepsisi, arzuya g\u00f6re b\u00f6rek de konulur. 2 sini veya bir sini elbise i\u00e7 \u00e7ama\u015f\u0131r\u0131 sinisi olur k\u0131z evi o\u011flan evine g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcr. Giderken bir iki minib\u00fcs olur gidilir. Arabalara mendil ba\u011flan\u0131r filancan\u0131n (Ay\u015fe, Fatma’)n\u0131n sinileri gidecek denilir, veya yak\u0131nsa\u00a0 gidilecek yer y\u00fcr\u00fcyerek tepsiler ba\u015f\u0131n \u00fcst\u00fcnde ta\u015f\u0131n\u0131r. O\u011flan evinde gelen misafirlere\u00a0 kar\u015f\u0131lama yap\u0131l\u0131r sini ta\u015f\u0131yanlara mendil v.b bahsis verilir. K\u0131z evinden giden tepsilere o\u011flan evi \u00e7erez, meyve ve k\u0131za ve ev halk\u0131na giyecek koyar\u00a0 ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde sini kar\u015f\u0131l\u0131\u011f\u0131 geri gelir. Buna \u00e7erez sinileri gelmi\u015f denir.<\/b><\/p>\n

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B\u00fcy\u00fck Ni\u015fan Hat\u0131ra Foto\u011fraf\u0131<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

D\u00dc\u011e\u00dcN’\u00fcn BA\u015eLAMASI<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ni\u015fanda istenmi\u015f olan baklavalar d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden 1-ay \u00f6nce falan k\u0131z evine getirilir. K\u0131z evi bunlara 1 k\u011f veya yar\u0131m kilo olarak teneke kutulara koyarak e\u015fe dostta da\u011f\u0131t\u0131r d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne buyur edilir. Helva (baklava) yiyenler d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne iyi bir avet (hediye) alarak gelirler. Baklava yemeyenler d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne gitmek istemezler. Bize helva m\u0131 verdi<\/strong>, <\/strong>diye sitem ederler. K\u0131z \u00e7ocu\u011fu do\u011fdu\u011fu zaman b\u00fcy\u00fckler, “Senin baklavana yiyece\u011fiz.” diye espri yaparlard\u0131. Sonralar\u0131 baklava da\u011f\u0131tma gelene\u011fi, maddi olanaks\u0131zl\u0131klardan dolay\u0131 lokum, daha sonra da \u015feker da\u011f\u0131tmaya d\u00f6nd\u00fc.<\/strong><\/strong>\u00a0<\/b> G\u00fcn\u00fcm\u00fczde ise kibrit veya \u015feker vererek, yada davetiye ile buyur ediliyor. D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerde, 2-3 g\u00fcn \u00f6nce a\u015furelik, ke\u015fkeklik bu\u011fdaylar erkekler taraf\u0131ndan ta\u015f dibeklerde davul e\u015fli\u011finde ahenkli bir \u015fekilde d\u00f6v\u00fcl\u00fcrm\u00fc\u015f<\/strong><\/p>\n

GEL\u0130N E\u015eYALARI :<\/span> Gelin E\u015fyalar\u0131 d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden bir hafta \u00f6nce trakt\u00f6rle g\u00f6rkemli bir \u015fekilde o\u011flan evine\u00a0 g\u00f6t\u00fcr\u00fcl\u00fcr. \u0130\u015fleme yast\u0131klar arac\u0131n en \u00fcst taraf\u0131na konur. s\u00fcp\u00fcrge bile ihti\u015faml\u0131 bir \u015fekilde s\u00fcslenir. Arac\u0131n en arkas\u0131na birka\u00e7 \u00e7i\u00e7ek saks\u0131s\u0131 konulur.\"\"<\/a><\/strong><\/p>\n

\u00c7eyiz Serme : Gelinin i\u015flemi\u015f oldu\u011fu kanavi\u00e7e\u00a0yast\u0131klar, karyola tak\u0131mlar\u0131, dantel masa \u00f6rt\u00fcleri, etamin \u00fczerine i\u015flenmi\u015f kaynana minderi, seccade,\u00a0 patikler, \u00e7evreler, kenar\u0131 oyal\u0131 havlular, el bezleri, g\u0131rg\u0131r \u00f6rt\u00fcleri el eme\u011fi ne varsa serilir.<\/b><\/p>\n

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\u00c7eyizler<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

N\u0130KAH : resmi nikah k\u00f6y muhtarlar\u0131\u00a0 veya k\u00f6y katibi (Ali Baltal\u0131) taraf\u0131ndan\u00a0 k\u00f6y odas\u0131nda d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden bir\u00a0 iki\u00a0 hafta \u00f6nce k\u0131y\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131. \u0130kram olarak nikah lokumu da\u011f\u0131t\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131.<\/strong><\/p>\n

GEL\u0130N HAMAMI:<\/span> Cuma g\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6k\u00fcz ile\u00a0 K\u00f6y\u00fcm\u00fczden (\u0130mamk\u00f6y)’den Ayd\u0131n<\/strong>\u2019n<\/strong>a gelin hamam\u0131na gidilir, e\u011flenilirmi\u015f, Giden ki\u015filer kom\u015fular akrabalar ve k\u0131z\u0131n arkada\u015flar\u0131 olurmu\u015f, \u00f6nceleri \u00f6k\u00fcz arabas\u0131 ile daha sonralar\u0131 minib\u00fcsle gidilirmi\u015f,\u00a0 k\u00f6ye\u00a0 gelirken de <\/strong>\u00e7<\/strong>engiler ve <\/strong>\u00e7<\/strong>alg\u0131c\u0131larla birlikle d\u00f6v\u00fcl\u00fcrm\u00fc\u015f, b\u00f6ylece d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn cuma g\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6\u011fleden sonra ba\u015flam\u0131\u015f olurmu\u015f, \u00c7alg\u0131c\u0131lardan en \u00fcnl\u00fcleri Kasab\u0131n Ay\u015fe, Mahmure, Didarlar, \u0130smail, Topal Hat\u00e7ami\u015f. K\u00f6ye gelen \u00e7alg\u0131c\u0131lar ak\u015fam\u00fcst\u00fc d\u00fcbeklerini, teflerini, \u00e7\u00fcmb\u00fc\u015flerini \u00e7alarak d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc ba\u015flat\u0131rlarm\u0131\u015f, Ak\u015fam\u0131na\u00a0 kom\u015fularla k\u00f6yden tan\u0131d\u0131k e\u015f dostla o\u011flan evliler de gelerek gelin k\u0131nas\u0131 yak\u0131l\u0131rm\u0131\u015f, Gelinin ayaklar\u0131na da k\u0131na yak\u0131l\u0131rm\u0131\u015f, Kom\u015fular k\u0131z\u0131n arkada\u015flar\u0131, akrabalar\u0131 k\u0131na yakarlar. E\u011flenirlermi\u015f, Bu esnada kad\u0131n a\u015f\u00e7\u0131lar yemek haz\u0131rl\u0131klar\u0131n\u0131 yaparlar. Yaprak sarmalar\u0131 sar\u0131l\u0131r, Tavuklar canl\u0131 olurdu. Kesilip temizlenir, pi\u015firilir, karn\u0131 yar\u0131kl\u0131k patl\u0131canlar k\u0131zart\u0131l\u0131r, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn tatl\u0131s\u0131 zede olacaksa tabaklarda dondurulur. Cumartesi erkenden gelin k\u0131nas\u0131 ila\u00e7lan\u0131r.<\/strong> El ve ayaktaki k\u0131nalar simsiyah olur.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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D\u00dc\u011e\u00dcN\u00dcN BA\u015eLAMASI :<\/strong><\/span><\/p>\n

K\u0131z evinde<\/strong> d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn cumartesi g\u00fcn\u00fc \u00f6\u011fleye doru ba\u015flar. Bir yandan yemek yenir, \u00a0yemekler o zamanlar yer sofralar\u0131nda yenir. Sofra ba\u015f\u0131nda sofrayla ilgilenen bir yard\u0131mc\u0131 bulunur. Sular s\u00fcrahilerden kupayla i\u00e7ilir. Sabunlu el bezleri ile el a\u011f\u0131z sildirilir. Sonra yemek yiyen ki\u015filer evden d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn alan\u0131nda yerlerini al\u0131rlard\u0131. Ya\u015fl\u0131lar genelde \u00f6nlerde oturmazlard\u0131. \u00c7alg\u0131c\u0131lar d\u00fcmteklerine \u00e7ald\u0131k\u00e7a b\u00fct\u00fcn davetliler d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne gelirler k\u00f6y d\u0131\u015f\u0131ndan Koca g\u00fcr,\u00a0 P\u0131nar dere, Karak\u00f6y, G\u00f6lc\u00fck mahallesi, Kayac\u0131k, Umurlu, K\u00f6\u015fk \u00a0Ayd\u0131n gibi yerlerden d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne gelenler olurdu. Gelinlik k\u0131z anneleri, k\u0131zlar\u0131n\u0131 alarak; yeni gelinli kaynanalar gelinlerine tak\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131 takt\u0131rarak, gelinini d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne getirir. \u00a0D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerini salonlarda yapanlar\u0131n say\u0131s\u0131 az\u0131nl\u0131kta idi. Onlara sosyete d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc (balo) denirdi. K\u00f6ylerde salonda de\u011fil de, \u00e7o\u011funlukla ev avlular\u0131nda veya geni\u015f sokak aralar\u0131nda olurdu. Sandalye say\u0131s\u0131 yetersiz oldu\u011fu zaman sandalyeye oturacak yer bulamayanlar i\u00e7in yere has\u0131r yaz\u0131l\u0131r. Ya da piket \u00fczerine tahta uzat\u0131larak oturak yap\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131.<\/strong><\/p>\n

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kad\u0131n \u00e7alg\u0131c\u0131lar<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

\u00c7alg\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne kasnak konur ve \u00fczerine sofra bezinden \u00f6rt\u00fc \u00f6rt\u00fcl\u00fcrd\u00fc. Oyunlar genelde tek (solo) oynan\u0131r, \u00e7ekici taraf\u0131ndan \u00e7ekilerek oyuna buyur edilirdi. K\u00f6y\u00fcm\u00fczde \u00c7ekicilerden \u00fcnl\u00fc olan Han\u0131m Tunus ve Sadike Bay\u0131nd\u0131r idi. Ortaya \u00e7\u0131kan ki\u015fi oynayaca\u011f\u0131 oyunu s\u00f6yler, bu oyunlardan baz\u0131lar\u0131 \u0130nce Memet, G\u00fcd\u00fc\u015f\u00fcn\u00fcn \u00c7e\u015fmesi, Pembe Gribimin oyas\u0131, \u00c7ine \u00c7ay\u0131, \u015eu Dalma, Harmandal\u0131, Ayd\u0131n Zeybe\u011fi gibi oyunlar \u00e7alg\u0131c\u0131ya s\u00f6ylenir; \u00e7alg\u0131c\u0131 \u00e7almaya ba\u015flar oynayacak olan \u00a0\u00e7evredekilerden arkada\u015flar\u0131ndan akrabalar\u0131ndan bozuk para toplar. Toplad\u0131\u011f\u0131 paray\u0131 kasna\u011f\u0131n \u00e7alg\u0131c\u0131lar\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcndeki kasna\u011f\u0131n i\u00e7ine atard\u0131. Oyun esnas\u0131nda oynayan\u0131n boyu posu ve ne giydi\u011fi izleyenler taraf\u0131ndan bak\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131.\u00a0 Ak\u015fam da d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn devam eder. Yeni gelinler gelinli\u011fini giydirerek, ni\u015fanl\u0131 olanlar da tuvaletlerini giyerek tak\u0131lar da tak\u0131larak d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcne gelirlerdi. (Eskiden gelinlikler ba\u015fka d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerde de giyilirdi.) Yeni gelinler oyuna kalkar gelin oynar \u00e7alg\u0131c\u0131lar gelini ba\u011fl\u0131s\u0131n\u0131z der kaynana gelini kurtarmak i\u00e7in tekrar para atar. Biraz da \u015faka olsun diye kad\u0131nlardan birisine erkek elbisesi giydirilir b\u0131y\u0131k sakal tak\u0131l\u0131r. O d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn alan\u0131na gelir en be\u011fendi\u011fi kad\u0131n\u0131 oyuna kald\u0131r\u0131r. Kad\u0131n kalkar e\u015flik eder. G\u00fcl\u00fc\u015f\u00fcler bir neyi orta oyunu sergilenir. Sonra d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn bitiminde \u00e7alg\u0131c\u0131lar yanlar\u0131nda gen\u00e7 birisini getirirdi. Bu gen\u00e7 k\u0131z dans\u00f6zd\u00fcr ve herkes bunun oynamas\u0131n\u0131 beklerdi, dans\u00f6z zilleri takar, oynar, para toparlard\u0131. Sonra gelin oynat\u0131l\u0131p o\u011flan evi taraf\u0131ndan koluna girilip \u00e7alg\u0131c\u0131lar e\u015fli\u011finde gezdirilirdi. B\u00f6ylece \u00a0K\u0131z evinin d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc sona ererdi.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Ertesi g\u00fcn yani pazar g\u00fcn\u00fc d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn o\u011flan evine bayrak as\u0131lmas\u0131 ile ba\u015flar . O\u011flan evinin d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc, mevlitle veya davullu yap\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131. Davullu d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnler genelde i\u00e7kili olurdu. Davul \u00f6n\u00fcnde Harmandal\u0131, Ayd\u0131n Zeybe\u011fi, Koca Arap zeybe\u011fi oynan\u0131rd\u0131. Bir yandan da yemekler yenir, i\u00e7kiler i\u00e7ilirdi. Mezeler haz\u0131rlan\u0131r, sonra da k\u0131z evine bayraklarla gelin almaya gidilirdi. K\u0131z evi o\u011flan evlilere \u015feker kolonya ikram eder. Gelin haz\u0131rlan\u0131r baba k\u0131z\u0131n beline k\u0131rm\u0131z\u0131 ku\u015fak ba\u011flar, k\u0131z\u0131na mutluluklar dilerdi. \u00c7orap giydirilirken i\u00e7eresine para koyard\u0131. Baba olmad\u0131\u011f\u0131 zaman bunu di\u011fer aile b\u00fcy\u00fcklerinden birisi yapard\u0131. Abi, amca, day\u0131, bunlar da yoksa kom\u015fulardan hat\u0131r\u0131 say\u0131l\u0131 ki\u015filer yapard\u0131. Gelin b\u00fcy\u00fcklerin ellerini \u00f6per.<\/b><\/p>\n

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Gelinin \u00e7\u0131kmas\u0131<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Mevlitle\u00a0d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnde o\u011flan evinde yemek yenirken mevlit okutulur. Mevlit \u015ferbeti i\u00e7ilir. Bu esnada d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn evinin \u00e7evresinde sat\u0131c\u0131lar olur mevsime g\u00f6re \u015eam tatl\u0131s\u0131, tulumba tatl\u0131s\u0131, Pamuk Helva, Taktak Helva, Dondurma, balon gibi \u00f6\u011fleden sonra gelin almaya gidilir. Arabalara bayrak ba\u011flan\u0131r hocayla dualarla k\u0131z evinden gelin al\u0131n\u0131p gelinir.<\/b><\/p>\n

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Gelin Ku\u015fa\u011f\u0131 Ba\u011flama<\/figcaption><\/figure>\n

Helalle\u015firler, a\u011fla\u015f\u0131rlar, davul e\u015fli\u011finde ata veya taksiye bindirilir. Bu esnada o\u011flan evinden birisi duvardan \u00e7ivi s\u00f6ker. Bunu o\u011flan evinin duvar\u0131na \u00e7akar. K\u0131z \u00e7ak\u0131ls\u0131n kals\u0131n diye, K\u0131z evi de gelin damad\u0131n yemesi i\u00e7in tavuk boh\u00e7as\u0131 haz\u0131rlar o da taksiye konur.\u00a0 Gelin bayrak ve davul zurna e\u015fli\u011finde yola \u00e7\u0131kar gelin arabas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fc kesilir, bah\u015fi\u015f\u00a0istenir bu birka\u00e7 yerde olur tavuk veya horoz da istenir. Damat yol kesenleri bah\u015fi\u015flerini verir. Damada gen\u00e7ler kahve falan pi\u015firtirler bu gibi eziyetler arkada\u015flar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan yap\u0131l\u0131r.<\/b><\/p>\n

Gelin o\u011flan evinde taksiden veya attan indirilirken bereket getirsin diye ba\u015f\u0131ndan \u015feker para at\u0131l\u0131r. \u00c7ocuklar nasip neyse kaparlar. Sonra gelin o\u011flan evinde d\u0131\u015far\u0131da bir yere oturtulur kuca\u011f\u0131na \u00e7ok oturtulur. \u00c7ocu\u011fu olsun diye herkes de geline bakarlar pek g\u00fczelmi\u015f, k\u00fc\u00e7\u00fckm\u00fc\u015f, \u00e7irkinmi\u015f gibi yorumlar yap\u0131l\u0131r.<\/b>\u00a0\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/span><\/strong>\u00a0<\/span>\u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0 \u00a0<\/span>\u00a0<\/span><\/p>\n

\u00a0\u00a0\u00a0<\/span><\/strong><\/span>Damat arkada\u015flar\u0131na ve dostlar\u0131na gelin arabadan inmeden \u00f6nce odun ate\u015finde menemen yap\u0131p yedirdi. Yine arkas\u0131ndan daha damat i\u015fkencesi bitmedi. Odun ate\u015finde k\u00f6zde\u00a0 T\u00fcrk kahvesi pi\u015firdi. Arkada\u015flar\u0131 afiyetle i\u00e7tiler. Bitmedi damad\u0131n i\u015fkencesi\u00a0 Ayd\u0131n \u00a0Zeybe\u011fi oynatarak d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn\u00fc bitirdiler. Gelin arabas\u0131n\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fc a\u00e7\u0131ld\u0131 dualar e\u015fli\u011finde gelin arabadan indirildi. Ge\u00e7en g\u00fcn damada arkada\u015flar\u0131 taraf\u0131ndan yap\u0131lan i\u015fkenceye yenisi eklenmi\u015f el arabas\u0131na balonlarla s\u00fcsleyip damad\u0131 i\u00e7ine oturtmu\u015flar.<\/b><\/p>\n

\u0130mam Nikah\u0131<\/strong> <\/span>:Eski d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnlerde imam nikah\u0131 d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn g\u00fcn\u00fcn\u00fcn gecesi, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn bittikten sonra yap\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131. \u015eimdilerde ise bu d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn \u00f6ncesi saatlerde yap\u0131labilmektedir. \u0130mam eve \u00e7a\u011f\u0131r\u0131l\u0131r. \u0130mama evlenmelerine dinen mani bir durum yoksa nikaha ge\u00e7ilir.\u00a0 Damat taraf\u0131ndan olmak \u00fczere, k\u0131z taraf\u0131ndan da nikah\u0131n yap\u0131ld\u0131\u011f\u0131na \u015fahit olabilecek\u00a0 ki\u015filer dini nikah t\u00f6renine kat\u0131labilir. Damatla gelin (ba\u015f\u0131na ve y\u00fcz\u00fcne \u00f6rt\u00fc \u00f6rter) imam\u0131n \u00f6n\u00fcne yak\u0131n bir mesafede dururlar. Nikah duas\u0131 yap\u0131l\u0131r. Nikah akdi Allah\u2019\u0131n huzurunda, \u015fahitler \u00f6n\u00fcnde ger\u00e7ekle\u015ftirilir. Nikah i\u00e7in gelin k\u0131za \u201cmihir\u201dhakk\u0131 \u00a0denilen, \u015fayet erkek nikah akdine sad\u0131k kalmay\u0131p ileride bo\u015fanacak olursa k\u0131z\u0131n g\u00fcvencesini sa\u011flayabilecek miktarda, genellikle alt\u0131n ya da g\u00fcm\u00fc\u015f gibi para birimine \u00e7evirilebilir bir de\u011ferlik s\u00f6z verilir. Bu ahd Allah huzurunda verilmi\u015f oldu\u011fundan, evlilikte ileride ters gidebilecek bir durumda mihr-i m\u00fceccele uymayacak olmak \u201ckul hakk\u0131\u201d<\/strong>\u00a0say\u0131l\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

KIZ ARDI :<\/span> D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden bir hafta sonra k\u0131z evi o\u011flan evine yeme\u011fe davet eder. Tavuk kesilir. Pilav sarma, \u00e7e\u015fitli birka\u00e7 yemek yap\u0131l\u0131r. O\u011flan evliler a\u011f\u0131rlan\u0131r. Ayn\u0131 \u015feyler bir hafta sonra o\u011flan k\u0131z evi taraf\u0131ndan yap\u0131l\u0131r.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Gelin Gezmesi:<\/span> D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcnden birka\u00e7 g\u00fcn sonra gelin, d\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn al\u0131\u015f veri\u015finde\u00a0 al\u0131nan tak\u0131m elbisesini giyer. Tak\u0131lar\u0131n\u0131, alt\u0131nlar\u0131n\u0131 takar. Damat da ayn\u0131 \u015fekilde giyinir. Kay\u0131nvalide ile birlikte,\u00a0 kom\u015fulara ve akrabalara gelin gezmesi yap\u0131l\u0131r. Yine gidilen ev taraf\u0131ndan geline bah\u015fi\u015f verilir. Buna gelin el \u00f6pmeye geldi denir.<\/strong><\/p>\n

Gelin Cumas\u0131 :<\/span><\/strong> Cuma g\u00fcn\u00fc gelin evde gelinli\u011fi giydirilir konum kom\u015fu akrabalar, k\u0131z evliler gelir. Mevlit okunur dualar edilir. \u0130kramlar yap\u0131l\u0131r. Serilen \u00e7eyiz ve ev e\u015fyalar\u0131 misafirler taraf\u0131ndan bak\u0131l\u0131r. Buna gelin Cumas\u0131 denir. B\u00f6ylece k\u0131z\u0131n \u00e7eyizleri yapt\u0131klar\u0131 el eme\u011fi g\u00f6z nuru kanavi\u00e7e ya\u015ft\u0131klar, \u00fcsl\u00fckler, yorgan kapaklar\u0131, dantel masa ve sehba \u00f6rt\u00fcleri, minderler, i\u015fli kaynana minderi, G\u0131rg\u0131r s\u00fcp\u00fcrge \u00f6rt\u00fcs\u00fc, yorganlar, yataklar, seccadeler hepsi bak\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131. Ho\u015fa giden i\u015flemelerden \u00f6rnekler istenir, yap\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131. hatta duvar panolar\u0131 bile i\u015flenir. Sembol olarak Horoz, Deve gibi hayvan fig\u00fcrleri pullarla yap\u0131l\u0131r. \u00c7avdar\u00a0 sap\u0131ndan k\u00f6yl\u00fc k\u0131z\u0131 yap\u0131l\u0131rd\u0131. Gelin s\u00fcp\u00fcrgesi kurdele ile s\u00fcslenirdi.<\/b><\/p>\n

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\u00c7ocuk olmas\u0131: Gelin\u00a0<\/p>\n

Be\u011fenilerinizi bekliyoruz.<\/p>\n

Be\u011fen be\u011fen verin gari<\/p>\n

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1940-70 y\u0131llar\u0131 aras\u0131nda evlilikler genelde g\u00f6r\u00fcc\u00fc usul\u00fc ile olurmu\u015f, O\u011flan \u00f6nce vatan\u0131 hizmetini tamamlay\u0131p o esnada evi de yapt\u0131r\u0131larak evlilik i\u00e7in art\u0131k haz\u0131rd\u0131r. K\u0131z evi de k\u0131z ilk okulda iken anne yava\u015f yava\u015f karyola tak\u0131m\u0131, ara oyalar\u0131, kanavi\u00e7e yast\u0131klar, gibi \u00e7eyizliklerini haz\u0131rlar \u00e7eyiz sand\u0131\u011f\u0131na koyar. ilk okuldan \u00e7\u0131k\u0131nca biraz beyaz e\u015fyalar\u0131 al\u0131n\u0131r, g\u0131g\u0131r s\u00fcp\u00fcrge, merdaneli … Okumaya devam et Ayd\u0131n Y\u00f6resi Eski K\u0131z \u0130steme, Mendil Alma, Ni\u015fan, K\u0131nal\u0131k, D\u00fc\u011f\u00fcn, Gelin Hamam\u0131, K\u0131z Ard\u0131 , Gelin Alma, Gelin Gezmesi Gibi \u00d6rf ve Adetlerimiz Hz: Nermin Karabulut<\/span><\/a><\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":1,"featured_media":0,"parent":0,"menu_order":0,"comment_status":"closed","ping_status":"open","template":"","meta":{"footnotes":""},"class_list":["post-676","page","type-page","status-publish","hentry"],"_links":{"self":[{"href":"http:\/\/imamkoy.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/676","targetHints":{"allow":["GET"]}}],"collection":[{"href":"http:\/\/imamkoy.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages"}],"about":[{"href":"http:\/\/imamkoy.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/types\/page"}],"author":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/imamkoy.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/users\/1"}],"replies":[{"embeddable":true,"href":"http:\/\/imamkoy.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/comments?post=676"}],"version-history":[{"count":302,"href":"http:\/\/imamkoy.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/676\/revisions"}],"predecessor-version":[{"id":9670,"href":"http:\/\/imamkoy.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/pages\/676\/revisions\/9670"}],"wp:attachment":[{"href":"http:\/\/imamkoy.com\/index.php\/wp-json\/wp\/v2\/media?parent=676"}],"curies":[{"name":"wp","href":"https:\/\/api.w.org\/{rel}","templated":true}]}}